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Safe Intergenerational Wealth Transfer

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Build the right trust and estate structure so your assets stay in your family — shielded from divorce, creditors and errant heirs.

Creating a trust or adding specific provisions to our family trust lets you specify how and when assets are distributed, while naming a separate trustee ensures proper oversight. You can structure distributions based on age milestones (like portions at 25, 30, and 35) or restrict usage to specific purposes like education and healthcare.

UGMA/UTMA custodial accounts offer a simpler alternative but transfer full control to children at age 18-21 (depending on state law). They also lack the protections a trust provides against creditors or divorce settlements.

Consider naming both a guardian for your children's care and a separate trustee to manage their financial interests. This separation of roles helps prevent conflicts and ensures proper management of the assets designated for your children's benefit.

You may also name a successor guardian or trustee in case your spouse remarries or becomes incapacitated. That document-level clarity helps prevent legal battles over access to the funds or distributions to unintended others, especially outside your family line.


Use Marriage Contracts to Safeguard Assets

Marriage and remarriage pose one of the largest risks to your intended legacy. A surviving spouse or new partner could gain control over family assets unless you explicitly establish legal shields against it.

A prenuptial agreement executed before marriage — or a postnuptial agreement executed afterward8 — can define what remains separate property, how inheritances and business interests are treated, and provide clarity on future income or growth. Enforceability varies by state and requires full disclosure, fairness and often independent counsel for each party, but they are standard tools in modern estate design. 

These agreements are especially important in second marriages, where you may want to protect your children from a prior relationship from being inadvertently disinherited. But be careful because a prenup or postnup is not a substitute for a will or trust. They work in tandem with each other.

When married, your estate plan should explicitly reference the prenuptial agreement, reaffirm separate property or asset statuses, and specify that certain assets or trusts remain off-limits in a divorce. That way, your intended wealth transfer doesn’t get derailed by marital claims.


Protect Your Estate From State Property Tax Laws

Your state's property laws affect asset division,9 regardless of your estate documents. Some states follow community property laws, where assets acquired during marriage belong equally to both spouses. Others allow couples to opt into community property treatment. And still others follow common law, a surviving spouse has rights to claim a portion10 of the estate (called an elective share), even if excluded from the will. This protection against disinheritance can affect plans for blended families.

To work within these rules while preserving your intended beneficiaries, talk to your legal professionals about using specific trusts like Qualified Terminable Interest Property (QTIP) trusts11 or credit shelter trusts.12 Properly structured, these tools can satisfy spousal rights while ensuring assets ultimately pass according to your wishes.


Avoid Blended-Family Pitfalls With Trusts That Protect Both Spouse and Children

Blended families introduce added complexity: A surviving spouse has no legal obligation to provide for stepchildren unless explicitly included in your estate plan.13 Standard estate plans that leave everything to a current spouse may unintentionally disinherit children from prior relationships.

A common solution is combining a Qualified Terminable Interest Property (QTIP) trust with a credit-shelter trust. The QTIP trust provides income to your surviving spouse while preserving the principal for your biological children. The credit-shelter trust can use your estate tax exemption early and maintain separate assets for your children, while still giving your spouse limited access.

Another approach is creating dual trusts: one for your spouse and another for your children, with carefully balanced terms. This structure prevents either spouse or stepchildren from redirecting or revoking the other's share.

Consider appointing an independent trustee or professional fiduciary rather than a family member to reduce potential conflicts and favoritism. Document clear decision-making powers, incapacity designations, and successor roles to maintain your intended plan as family dynamics shift.


Work with Your Team

Engage experienced advisors who know your state laws, including estate planners, a tax attorney or CPA, and a financial advisor. They should get to know you, your family and your goals —and should be able to help you test your assumptions and ensure alignment with your overall wealth plan, including transfer of assets to beneficiaries. 

With diligence in properly creating your inheritance protection structure and maintenance strategy, you have the best chance of honoring your intentions with your wealth, possibly for generations.

Important disclosure information

Asset allocation and diversifications do not ensure against loss. This content is general in nature and does not constitute legal, tax, accounting, financial or investment advice. You are encouraged to consult with competent legal, tax, accounting, financial or investment professionals based on your specific circumstances. We do not make any warranties as to accuracy or completeness of this information, do not endorse any third-party companies, products, or services described here, and take no liability for your use of this information.

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